İlgili makaleden "Neden Olmaz" kısımlarını alıyorum. Nalıncı keseri gibi kendime yontuyorum. Ben bunu hep yapıyorum.---------------------------------------
"People don't know what feelings are appropriate toward the opposite sex, unless they're what our culture defines as appropriate. You know you love someone and enjoy them as a person, but not enough to date or marry them. What does this mean?"
"You're trying to do a friend-friend thing, but the male-female parts of you get in the way. Unwelcome or not, the attraction is difficult to ignore."
"In a culture where men have always been more equal than women, male dominance, prestige and power is baggage that both men and women are likely to bring to a relationship."
"Society may not be entirely ready for friendships between men and women that have no sexual subtext. People with close friends of the opposite sex are often barraged with nudging, winking and skepticism"
"Boys and girls form their own gender groups in elementary school. They learn their own ways of relating to each other. So when they do get together, inspired by puberty, they see each other as dating partners because they've never really known each other as friends. It continues into adulthood. You see it at cocktail parties. Men go off to one corner, and women go to another."
"You're trying to do a friend-friend thing, but the male-female parts of you get in the way. Unwelcome or not, the attraction is difficult to ignore."
"In a culture where men have always been more equal than women, male dominance, prestige and power is baggage that both men and women are likely to bring to a relationship."
"Society may not be entirely ready for friendships between men and women that have no sexual subtext. People with close friends of the opposite sex are often barraged with nudging, winking and skepticism"
"Boys and girls form their own gender groups in elementary school. They learn their own ways of relating to each other. So when they do get together, inspired by puberty, they see each other as dating partners because they've never really known each other as friends. It continues into adulthood. You see it at cocktail parties. Men go off to one corner, and women go to another."
2 yorum:
Makalenin geri kalani icin nereye tiklayalim abi :)
Onu da şöyle arz edeyim :)
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200109/can-men-and-women-be-friends
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